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What’s In A Number? Recently someone asks me if sex at 50 was the same as sex at 20. The question itself made me smile as if I was some wise old shaman who the unenlightened scaled sheer cliffs question and, in turn, gain the wisdom of the ages. But back the question. In essence, what the OP wanted know was “does sex get better or worse with age.” Such a simple question on the surface. Kind of like what it means be submissive. Yeah. There are no simple answers either of those questions. Trust . The act of sex itself has not changed since I was 20 years old. At least I am not aware of any changes and I do attempt stay --date. (My work ethic in .) However, what I am both able participate in within the physical acts and, more importantly, what I find most enjoyable have changed quite a bit in and a half decades. My limbs no longer appreciate being held in awkward poses (with or without the assistance of bondage aids) for long periods of time and will now repay my erotic enthusiasm with pulled muscles and stabbing pains. On the other hand, I’ve learned do things with my tongue that 20-year-old Ginger would never have attempted, much less enjoyed. And let us not forget that sex is only partly about the physical act in the first place. Age, and thus experience, help us understand the true role of emotional connections without which truly amazing sex cannot occur. At 20, I was more about running my hands and mouth over a firm body. At 50, I am more interested in knowing what makes the mind of my man tick. And that knowledge when used properly gives the ability offer him more fulfilling erotic experiences than a mere hot tongue can ever achieve on its own. By the way, this idea is the same in every facet of your life as you age. With time and experience, you change. This is not meant to mean that you are withering away and just can’t do the stuff you did as a . Trust me. If I WANT to slip my butt onto a piece of cardboard and slide down a hill screaming and laughing, I’m going to do it. If I WANT to pick a 20-ish bodybuilder at a beach bar kissing contest and take him the hotel for a one-night stand, I will. The difference is that now I realize it’s my choice. of it. And with choices come consequences – some awesome enough write stories about and some you’d love to wipe from your memories forever. Knowing enough to match consequences to actions BEFORE I do them is the beauty of age and experience. Not caring about them because you have a lifetime to get over it is the beauty of youth. Be who you are. Revel in the glory of your experience – vast or shallow still. Live for the day whether you are 20 or 80. As long as it’s SSC (and your muscles allow it), the world is yours for the exploring. In the end, we only live once. But if we do it right, once is enough. *winks* thegingerpowers~ *Archive  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” |
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ali I again totally agree with this! Once a day is usually enough now but it can still be so intense  Age is NOT a barrier to good sex or enjoying life A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Enjoy every day......
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11/28/2020 4:22 am |
Can we do it right? We are a sum of experiences: positive ones, negative ones. Let's hope and work on making the positive ones more numerous.
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In the end, we only live once. But if we do it right, once is enough. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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