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Is the question based on you both being open with each other and agreeing to the various options?
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both have to agree but i feel if one wants to and the other doesn't he/she should be able to fill that need
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Depends if either has the slightest jealous streak in them...if they see someone else satisfying their partner more than they can it can destroy your relationship easily..i'd say seperately
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Or do we figure out why they want to experiment in the ways they do . . I mean, Burkowitz killed people because a dog told him to.
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I only ever need one, provided she is the right one, and if she is, I'm all she needs. I am open to another female joining in, I can't give her pussy.
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both have to agree but i feel if one wants to and the other doesn't he/she should be able to fill that need 
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11/26/2022 1:30 am |
It would depend entirely on the nature of one's "relationship." If one is part of a "dedicated full time couple" (especially a traditional marriage with children) a LONG discussion and a delayed implementation of the "experiment" seems in order.  The closer the emotional relationship is the higher the likelihood of disaster.  That may be hypocritical of me to say, because i very much enjoy serving the sexual needs of a married Man who is sneaking around behind His wife's back.  What can i say? I'm evil. But just because i am deplorable does not mean YOU have to be stupid.  My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do. 
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My husband and I have both been in the lifestyle for many years we have a very open marriage. We play separately. We have talked it over and we cannot give each other what we need. So instead of denying ourselves we have an understanding, and it works for us neither one of us is jealous.
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I met couple .. all are bi-couple
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You are right, so that no one is jealous of the other
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Everyones dynamics in relationships are different so experimenting is something that needs to be talked about or maybe people just need to stay single and do as they please. I believe more so than ever that in these times people require more sexual pleasure and want to experiment. For me I would rather have some agreed upon rules because some things can ruin a relationship. It's hard to close some doors once they are opened.
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We grow, we change, as do our interests, needs and desires. As with everything in this lifestyle, they are openly discussed with limits negotiated to keep each participant safe. tasina "like the seas, her depth and power will only be known by He who inspires her into submission”
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12/5/2022 8:49 am |
Great point, each may have way different needs and desires.
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I am glad to meet you, but you are in America and I am in Algeria
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12/14/2022 10:56 pm |
As a dominant mistress it is ok if just one of you plays with others but both have to agree but i feel if one wants to and the other doesn't he/she should be able to fill that need properly
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As long as it is agreed, the configuration is indistinct...
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12/20/2022 12:35 am |
I tried it once after a discussion with my ex, we both agreed it was ok. Then it became awkward because I was enjoying more than he was. So I would say don't do it
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Sometimes you just need to try it to know.
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Mutual consent is a must.
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1/30/2023 6:29 am |
We met as Swingers and still swing now. It is something we both enjoy very much but is usually quite vanilla. We do meet others within our Master/Sub dynamic and that is very different. When we meet as swingers we have a set of rules we both agree to follow and we are very much equals. The meets are based on sexual fulfilment and titilation. When we meet within our Master/Sub dynamic things are much more intense, they are physically more demanding and there is more of an emphasis on emotional intimacy and caring. This is probably why we are moving more away from swinging and deeper in to the lifestyle because these are the meets we get most out of. So in answer to "You are in a long term relationship and the question arises about experimenting with others" I would say, if the question has arisen you need to take it seriously, there is a reason for it. It works for us but not for everyone, I have met couples for whom it spelled of their relationship and couples who would not be together if it were not for experimenting and playing with others. Only you know.
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made that mistake once, i was asked if i wanted to fuck a friendfs wife. i said yes. but only if both consent. biggest mistake doing it
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