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DancingDom 74M
22524 posts
3/11/2020 9:08 pm

To have IM's read or responded to, you pretty much need to be a paying member. Even when I was a paying member, it never worked for me.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


hurtbike 52M

3/11/2020 9:49 pm

the im has never worked very well
and has not been free in a good while


DecibelRating 108M

3/11/2020 10:26 pm

yeah, just blew 10 points tonight and not one message said “Delivered”. I have better chances playing fucking VLTs...

BRUTAL.


slaveboy_paul 56M

3/11/2020 10:26 pm

i hate how i have to pay 10 points, and more than 1/2 the time, the recipient doesn't even get my message!


WallyworldG 51M

3/11/2020 11:27 pm

They need a new system...crazy


steffiswallows 61M
25 posts
3/11/2020 11:57 pm

The IM is hit or miss better to join a group in your area and hang out in the chat room

sissy stffi


1959man1 65M

3/12/2020 12:46 am

glad to hear im not the only one having trouble


mrmindme2 102M
218 posts
3/12/2020 12:53 am

They made IM more difficult, less reliable, but always responsive to taking your points. It works for me WHEN I do these two things:

1) click on the ballon with the ... located in tab bar at the top of the page. Flip the switch to 'On IM'.
2) Open the IM app from the IM icon at the page top right. If the app doesn't open you might have an ad blocker turned on and will need to add an exception.

Good luck!


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1526 posts
3/12/2020 1:41 am

girl IM is NOT free. It costs you 10 points to send a page and as far as I know it costs another 10 points for someone to answer it.


rosaenaluin 65F
10946 posts
3/12/2020 2:54 am

I have been here, on and off, since like 2009 and even then, IM was not really working; meaning, i could get messages but could not answer them, or the other way around...
IM sucks ánd eat your points too!


rosaenaluin 65F
10946 posts
3/12/2020 2:55 am

Even as a paying member, it did not work, as it should.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1526 posts
3/12/2020 4:30 am

Girl nothing here is free. As far as IMs go, it costs 10 points to send and I am lead to believe 10 points to answer. So if your not getting any responses, that might be why.

Your comment has been denied due to the following reason: Banned Topics (hate/weapons/under age). Feel free to submit a new comment.

This is just an example of the incompetence of this site - no wonder members are leaving in their droves.


1959man1 65M

3/12/2020 7:15 am

nothing works here


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
632 posts
3/13/2020 9:55 am

When using the IM we do the same thing as mrmindme and it seems to work for the most part. We have found that when we finally are able to chat to a standard members, their session is limited to about 15 messages each. Then "poof" they are gone. We chalked up some to not interested in what we do but others when we are able to chat again say we disappeared as well and we pick up the chat for a few more messages before that freezes as well. It's a very bad system.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


BitchBeater2u 47M
20 posts
3/18/2020 11:53 pm

IM has its issues


lickherslow1 62M
98 posts
3/31/2020 11:46 pm

😂😂😂 this site is a total piece of shit not like the old days when everything actually worked and hardly any fake profiles oh well at least I haven't given the useless fucks any of my money the past few years
Lick



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