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I was asked by a friend to explain High Protocol Almost every BDSM relationship has some sort of protocols and rules. The most common is the use of titles and pet names. Every dynamic has different sets of rules for the Dominant and submissive to adhere to. High Protocol simply means that the dynamic has a high number of protocols and rules and/or they are very specific, very formal and strictly enforced. Some examples of the more formal and specific protocols would be: *The submissive standing in a prescribed position and asking permission to enter a room occupied by the Dominant. (also leaving) *The submissive kneeling beside the bed and asking permission to get in the Dominant’s bed. *The submissive asking permission to speak. *The submissive asking permission to sit on furniture. *Stipulated locations for the submissive to eat, sleep, or sit near the Dominant. *Formal behavior for the submissive to maintain during dinner parties or other formal BDSM gatherings or events In High protocol dynamics, the protocols are enforced to the point if the submissive isn’t in the proper position when asking to enter a room, they are disciplined, never mind if they actually forget to ask permission. High protocol is not for everyone. It can be difficult to remember all the different protocols and rules. For others it can be just annoying to have so many protocols and rules. Others like a more informal set of protocols. High Protocols are more an Old Guard standard due to the strictness and formality, but can be incorporated into any dynamic that both parties agree to. © 11/26/22 Ronald Dirienzo
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I have tried and used it years ago. Rather stay on the semi formal side now.
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11/26/2022 8:17 pm |
protocols have largely went away as mimicking the deterioration of society as a whiole
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High Protocols Strictly Enforced has always been my experience with DOMs❤️
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I have tried and used it years ago. Rather stay on the semi formal side now.
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OK Ryder let's see how that works... I have a DOM who has no protocols no rules I just do whatever I please like he's just my boyfriend.... So how is that a DOM or BDSM????? Maybe Sir Ron could explain how you can be a so called DOM without being Dominant.... NOT👅
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I have no use for protocols. They are outdated and childish. They feel more like playtime than reality.
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I have no use for protocols. They are outdated and childish. They feel more like playtime than reality.
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OK Ryder let's see how that works... I have a DOM who has no protocols no rules I just do whatever I please like he's just my boyfriend.... So how is that a DOM or BDSM????? Maybe Sir Ron could explain how you can be a so called DOM without being Dominant.... NOT👅
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I find that as we got older it became harder for a lot of the female subs to get on their knees due to ongoing knee problems and other health problems. So allowances had to be made. I tell no one that I am a Dom.....the ones I am with sense and know it very readily.
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I found myself lucky that my Scribe never insisted on any sort of high protocol or claimed he is a "Dom". It is what he is, so no need to insist on it or to ask for verification through some honorific protocolary gestures. We know very well who is in charge, and what is allowed, or not, and I find it beautiful this way.
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There are very few protocols with Mistress but those that are in place are strictly enforced.
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My Dom esta is he's the protocols based on our agreements and limits. We keep it rather simple but how I address him is a basic one and I always ask him to focus on safety. For the rest, it's mostly up to him
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I prefer some rules to follow. It makes things easier. No room for doubt. If I am unsure, I ask for clarification. It does not seem childish to me. It seems respectful.
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