INTRODUCTION - Im not looking for random hook ups, FWB or NSA! I want to explore and experience my desires, kinks and fantasies in a LTR with someone that I connect well with thats dominant. That also includes keeping my partner happy and pleasured and enjoying and sharing in his kinks and fetishes. So I prefer someone thats looking for a LTR as well. Though Im starting to give up hope of ever finding one.
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ABOUT ME - Im not looking for FWB or NSA! Im looking for a deep connection to pursue a LTR with someone who is kinky and dominant. Though Im starting to give up hope of ever finding one, just keep experiencing disappointment after disappointment. I want to have as well, so that should be something you desire as well.
I have had a mostly vanilla sex life through my 20s and early 30s. Just did not find or was not with partners who were kinky or interested in exploring or trying new things. Ive always been sexually submissive but just got into the lifestyle over the past 3-4 yrs, initially exploring most kinky stuff with myself. So my experience of being a submissive is limited but Im willing to learn and have room to grow and learn with a patient Dom. Some of my interests-kinks I have had for many years, some are more recently developed. The following list are most of my interests-kinks that I enjoy most and have a desire to explore and experience further. My interests are not completely limited to this list though, as I am open to trying and doing almost anything, as long as my few hard limits are respected. My kinks-limits can be discussed in more detail later on. This is just a general summary.
In no specific order
1. Bondage - Being tied updown and restrained in different ways in a huge turn on for me. I love not having and control. Having things done forcefully to me while I cant resist turns me on. Only thing to take into consideration is positioning as to not aggravate my neck back pain.
2. Forced Orgasms (multiple) - Being forced to have continuous multiple orgasms (especially restrained) is a such a huge turn on. Love someone else having that control over me.
3. Medical Play- I am very turned on by the whole medical exam fetish-medical play, using medical instruments and tools to probe and explore inside of me. The whole doctor-patient, doctor taking advantage of a patient type of role play is a huge turn on.
4. spanking - I love being spanked. If you can see my pics you39ll see I have paddles, a flogger and riding crop. I like mild, moderate and hard kings...just depends on what works best at any given time. Im not into being severely whipped-beaten.
5. Toys - I really love toys, all kinds of toys. If you can see my pics you will know what I mean lol. Dildos, vibrators, beads, plugs, nipple clamps, ball gag, collar, sounding rods, etc. Toys I feel are an essential part to incorporate into sex routinely.
6. Watersports - Nothing in my face...neck down only. Also I dont drink urine. I also want my pussy urinated in. Im also into urinating on someone.
7. Urethral Play - Sounding and stretching my urethra is a more recent interest. Working from sounding rods, to fingers slim toys.
8. Anal Play-sex - This is extremely dependent on my IBS how irritated I may already be.
I am 100 submissive. I am not a switch. I am looking for a caring, nurturing dom who will push me but know my physical limits.
I am not into being humiliated or degraded those are hard limits. Some name calling with dirty talk is fine. However I do not like the c word in any way, either using it to name call me or in just reference to my pussy. I like nipple and clit clamps. Ass, pussy and tit slapping-smacking, with a paddle, flogger andor crop is definitely good. Just no face smacking, thats not something I am into and its a hard limit of mine. Pinching and biting is ok as well. Obviously, more areas and things can be discussed and clarified later, especially with regards to my hard limits-boundaries.
My HARD LIMITS include no urinating in my face, I wont drink urine, no scat in my face, I wont eat scat, no face slappingsmacking, no branding, no kidsyoung. If I missed something Ill add it later. Obviously, more areas things can be discussed clarified at any time.
MY IDEAL PERSON - Again, Im not looking for FWB or NSA...Im tired of that scene. Im looking for long term, so I want someone who is looking for long term as well. So if you are married or attached to someone, or youre only looking for FWB or NSA, please we need to discuss that. Having is important to me but if you dont want it all cool, . You need to be understanding of and willing to work around my chronic pain issues (neck, upper back lower back 247...and no I am not crippled or in a wheelchair). Ideally Im into someone 30-up......not set in stone though, always exceptions. Im looking to connect with someone on the deepest of levels while we explore our deepest desires together. I want a loving relationship where we will be devoted to each other. A relationship based and built on trust, honesty, respect, loyalty and open communication. As a submissive, I yearn to serve and please my Dom (or dominant guy). In return I seek guidance, protection, support and a deep inner strength to lean on and training as needed. I want someone I can completely submit to, giving all of my mind, heart, body and soul to, knowing that in giving up full control my hard limits will always be respected never broken or forcefully taken away as a punishment.
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